25th weeding anniversary!
we are stilll happy and loving each other.
How we did it?
Marriage is a big step for couples, having my husband as a boyfriend it was an amazing experience, more even when our paths got together because a volleyball game.
Sound funny but When I was young I saw my mom playing voleyball, my brothers and me love it.
I wasn’t the best at it, but I was okay.
I met him asking if he could play in our team, he said yes.
That was the beginning for my journey with him.
To make the story short we ended getting marry and we travel to start a new life together.
At the beginning it was really hard not only at diferent country but a new language plus living together we really discover our characters.
He loves black I love white , I say this as an example and more things with the time they were coming out.
We had so many fights, because we didn’t want to loose.
Until one day I got tired of this , I realized when I answered bad, things were out of control.
I started to change, I started to ignored when he got mad.
I can keep going with more stories but here are 10 things are working with me.
1- Always remember that nobody is like you, everyone is different .
2 – when one of you got upset wait at least 10 minutes before answer back, because you will avoid saying something will hurt the other person.
3 – Remember always the good qualities.
4- make something special for your partner, suprise him or her with a little detail.
5- try to set a goal for your future together.
6- dont be to serious , make or say something fumny or do something together.
7- dont try manage her or his time, is a Marriage but still we don’t like when someone try to control us.
8- be positive, , if something didnt work for one of you, encourage the other instead of blame it.
9- there will be moments when you just want to quit in this moments remember why you choose that person and don’t let your problems end your relation without give it a change.
10- take care of yourself, on your thoughts and on your imagen, you have to feel good about you in order to give to the other person.